Whether you’re not going outside these days, or slowly working your way back to what we once new as “normal” … check out Randy’s workshop “The Ego Cleanse: Becoming Your Own Best Friend” will help you raise your self-esteem and sense of self-worth while helping you discard negative self-talk. It’s time to build your self-esteem and truly become your own best friend — again or for the very first time — by learning a new set of skills and tools that will help you become the person you’ve always wanted to be.




Ego is usually a mask for a lack of self-love. It’s a type of defense mechanism. We use it to protect ourselves. It can keep us in power, shut out vulnerability, and keep our emotions at a comfortable distance. But that is not what happy, fulfilling lives are made of.

Our society tells us ego and self-esteem are the same thing, but they are not. This FREE WORKSHOP gives you a road map to build self-esteem and cleanse yourself of the destructive nature of ego. It’s the perfect road map to building self-esteem and cleansing yourself of the destructive nature of ego … Becoming your own best friend.



An empathic warrior who has overcome many obstacles, Randy isn’t afraid to get in the trenches with his readers. He’ll help you identify—and dig yourself out from—the things keeping you buried or struggling. Randy’s years as a therapist, university administrator, and health promotion expert are grounded in his own journey of personal growth. Randy is a survivor—a survivor of addiction, of self-hatred, and of our often toxic, ego-soaked culture. 

Today, Randy is a speaker who helps audiences around the country and the world find their paths in life and learn the self-esteem building skills necessary to be positive, productive, and fulfilled members of society. He has provided memorable keynotes and paradigm-shifting leadership workshops at schools including Notre Dame, Brown, Johns Hopkins and Valencia Community College, among many others. Randy is now dedicating his life to his true passion and helping others to do the same. Randy is able to unlock a wellspring of self-esteem and potential.



Personally, I am a warrior and a survivor. Metaphorically I have battled dragons, survived quicksand, overcome raging rapids, and was lost in the jungle, but made my way out. In my late teens and early twenties, I made some horrible and self-destructive decisions. I became addicted to cocaine, alcohol, and marijuana. I was expelled from college twice, and at my lowest point, seriously contemplated suicide, going so far as to have the knife in my hand, debating which wrist to slice open first. That was my bottom, my turning point, in May of 1984. And that is when I reached out for help. That night was the last time I used cocaine. Eleven days later I had my last drink and have not had a drink or a drug since. With the help of an amazing therapist, the love and support of my family, and a new group of friends who were my support network, I found my path. Since then, I have dedicated my life to helping others overcome the struggles in their lives. 

Through all of my work there was one common thread, I saw that many people suffered from low self-esteem. I realized that our society gives people the wrong idea of what self-esteem is all about. I worked with people who had addictions, depression, anxiety, childhood sexual abuse, and a variety of other mental health issues and all of them had one commonality, low self-esteem. Even the high functioning students and college athletes I worked with, seemed to work hard to reinforce their ego rather than their self-esteem. And that is where the seeds of this workshop and my book were planted

I do this work because I want to make a difference. I want to help people find their way out of the jungle quicker than I did. I want to give people the tools they need to build their self-esteem and live happy, confident lives. When I started to put this workshop together I had some people tell me I needed to charge more, I needed to have multiple levels of membership and charge increasing amounts, up to the “platinum level” and charge a major premium. But that is not me. I want to make my work as accessible as possible. 

For me it is not about the money. It is about creating a community of people who want to raise their self-esteem and feel better about who they are and where they fit in the world. I have watched ego slowly consume the world. I have watched this “Me” mentality grow like a cancer. My goal is to help people find the “We” which is the only thing that battles the “Me.” Together “We” can do this. I know that when people apply the principles of my book and workshop into their lives, they feel better. And now it is time to get this out there to as many people as possible. I hope you will join us. Merely by the fact that you have read this entire letter, something inside of you wants to move toward a higher sense of self. And I would like to show you what has worked for me and countless others who have read my book and heard my workshop.

Randy Haveson - Author, Speaker, Life Coach

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